Face your demons with a courageous heart
We’re on a mission to redefine the modern relationship. Begin cultivating the emotional tools to accept yourself and others as they are, without judgment, expectation or need for change.
OUR MISSIONThe Broken Heart Boys Club is a new resource for a new generation of men. We are whole-heartedly committed to building and repairing loving relationships through a compassionate understanding of ourselves and the ones we love.
No man ever steps in the same river twice. For it's not the same river and he's not the same man.
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Sit with the pain, anger, and frustration of life that we all hold inside
Summon the courage to face your darkness and find the light within
Forge strong, lasting bonds through empathy and compassion
Live a life of virtue through the grace and wisdom of God
The money you make, the car you drive, the women you love, none of them can ever make you a man. Indeed there are many men—boys really—hiding behind the mask of worldly achievement, hoping not to be found out.
Your virtues, your generosity, your compassion without trying—the clearest reflection of your heart—that is what makes you a man.
Right now, your mind may resemble a battlefield. You feel locked in a near constant internal struggle. A fight with yourself. If that’s you, then it’s time to embark on a journey within, to the most distant frontiers of your heart, mind, and memory.
You are in search of something valuable, a jewel hard-fought in the darkness. You want to discover who you truly are.
Let that journey continue here.
Increasingly, men are being asked to serve in roles for which they had no reliable male model for growing up: as attentive lovers, responsible fathers, and strong leaders. Adding to the struggle, many of the expectations placed on men, particularly in relationships, are done so by women who themselves have had no childhood model for a healthy, durable relationship with a man.
This has lead to widespread cynicism, distrust, and despair between the sexes. Nowadays many men, and women, feel as if they are unworthy, defective, and unable to just be in a truly loving relationship.
We must break the chain.
Rather than antagonize or blame our partners, past, or circumstances, BHBC seeks to forge a new path forward built on forgiveness, understanding, and the bravery to just be as we are. Through the expression of grief and mindful self-inquiry, we challenge ourselves to rehabilitate our view of the perfect relationship and deepen our own heart’s capacity to love.